A Glassful of Attitude

Little things matter big time.

But then, we’ve known that since we were kids. Remember the Little Engine That Could? Attitude made the difference between his getting to the top of the hill and sliding down backward.

Choices are important too, of course. We talked earlier about how following self-imposed disciplines and wisely choosing our proverbial hats can help keep chaos at bay. But our attitude is what directs our choices.

It’s not as cut and dried as the proverbial half-full or half-empty glass. Sometimes we see the glass is half-empty, but know it can be filled again.  This is neither blind naiveté nor stormy pessimism. It’s the sort of realism that accepts the facts and takes positive action.

When the level of wine in your life’s glass is sinking, what do you do about it? Do you drain the glass, and then, refreshed, put it in the sink and go your way? Refill it then take it to your desk to sip from as you work? Water a houseplant with the remainder?

What if it slips from your hands and breaks? Do you go to pieces with it, or clean up the mess and look for another glass?

Everyone’s wineglass holds a unique vintage. Only you know how the analogy relates to your situation. Whatever the parallel, it’s a good idea to analyze your circumstances impersonally, as you would a glass of wine. Decide the best course of action based on the opportunities available, and implement that choice as you’re able. Remember, it’s a glass of wine, not whine.

Your realistic attitude can determine whether you live a drama, or a dream.